I started a new non-fiction book called Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking. On a recent drive to work one morning, I heard the author interviewed on NPR and was instantly fascinated by the thesis of her book. I've always known that I'm an introvert but typically that label has connoted a person who is shy, anti-social, and possibly even timid. But I've also always known that I'm fairly out-going, friendly, and not the least bit timid.
In Quiet, Cain attempts to define who an introvert is: she is someone who thinks before acting, who prefers the company of a few close friends rather than a large cocktail party, and at the end of the day, prefers to sit quietly with a good book. For me, a quiet evening is not only a preference but a need. In my work, I engage with people all day long and it's wonderful. I'm energized by it, challenged by it, and grateful to know so many interesting people. But once I leave campus and get into my car for my drive home, I revel in the thought of several hours in the company of my family, eating a home-cooked meal, reading my book, or catching up with my favorite shows. This is the way I both relax and rejuvenate.
I'm only about 1/4 of the way into the book, but already I'm hooked. With so many people of influence in our society today who are larger than life, I'm so happy to be reading about the other side of this crazy celebrity-obsessed world we live in. Remember, Albert Einstein, Rosa Parks, and Frederic Chopin (to name only a few) were introverts. I like that company!
That sounds like an excellent book that I might have to give a try. You are also such a nice knitter for giving your family so many pretty knits. I'm sure that those projects are always treasured.
ReplyDeleteThat book sounds really interesting! I'll have to see if my local library has it. I'm definitely an introvert- I need some peace and quiet every single day just to function.
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet sister you are! I have not given anyone but my sons and grandgirls hand knit stuff,but both my mom and sister saw my fingerless gloves this past weekend and quickly exclaimed they would love a pair--with mom even adding in that she likes black! So, I think this coming year there will be Christmas knitting in my future!
ReplyDeleteYour book sounds quite interesting--and I must say that I am like you. After my day at work, dealing with the public, I am always so relieved to step into my house at the end of the day--even though folks tend to label me a "people person", I do have my limits!
*smiles and happy day*
That book sounds great. I once read "The Loner's Manifesto" and have never forgotten the author explaining that introverts have "tiny social batteries that need to be recharged much more often than extroverts." Somehow that makes sense to me. Haha.
ReplyDeleteHow sweet your sistas were missing your knits! You are brave to knit w/black; it can be hard to see when dusk comes.
ReplyDeleteI admire you for reading such intellectual reads.
You're such a nice sister! That book sounds interesting, maybe I'll give it a try!
ReplyDeleteWhat an interesting sounding book. I must see if I can get a copy of it from our library :) Happy knitting.
ReplyDeleteI had to giggle in recognition when I read your observation that your family were disappointed. It's funny how that happens. Makes you feel good though! The introvert thing is interesting. I'm extremely introverted - perhaps knitting is something that draws us introverts in as it's the perfect activity for our minds.
ReplyDeleteLovely gloves, I hope your sister appreciates them and wears them all the time!
ReplyDeleteThat book does sound good and I think I may be a sociable but introvert at heart!
ReplyDeleteYour knitting is wonderful and I agree your sisters are lucky.
I can't wait to see what you do (and read) next.
You're so nice :-) It's so great that your sisters appreciate your work enough to want to have some of your pieces. Definitely makes it more satisfying to knit for them! I agree that the book you're reading sounds very interesting; may have to pick it up!
ReplyDeleteThat book sounds interesting, I think it describes my sister quite well!
ReplyDeleteMy husband looked crestfallen when there was no knitting for him this year even though he specified some months ago that I shouldn't make anything for him as he wouldn't wear it. I ended up making him a cowl (also black, by his choice) in the new year in time for his birthday *tut* (I hate knitting black!)
I'm sure your sister will appreciate your knitting for her.
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Oooh, the book sounds fascinating. I'm an introvert, too, and also have a job where I deal with people ALL DAY. Must.Have.Quiet.Time. at night!
ReplyDeleteI heard that interview and thought, ok I 'll go with this new definition, because it does describe me! I'm glad you are enjoying it. I must order it from our library!
ReplyDeleteI love the description of your burger and hike day. We too are surrounded by beautiful walks, but I have been so captivated by my knitting this year that I am reluctant to venture out. You have inspired me.
Not familiar with the Yarn Along, off to read up on it.
I'm sure your sis will love her mitts! Knitting for others is tough. I'm always so pleased when they ask me to knit them something rather than me trying to guess what they might like, myself.
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