Mar 5, 2012

The Cardigan Chronicles: Letting Go

I thought to name today's post many things:  Epic Fail, Misery, Jumping Ship, UGH!  But Letting Go is the most appropriate because that is how I'm feeling this morning.  I feel that it's a more positive way to describe my huge disappointment in the cardigan that I've been working on for the past four months.




It was a busy weekend mainly spent in the city doing wonderful things (dance class and an audition for a summer intensive for Miranda, attending a contemporary dance performance with friends followed by tea and great conversation) so my time working on the second sleeve was precious.  My KAL partner teased me last week when I wrote about abandoning the two sleeves I had already knitted and trying the top-down sleeve method instead -- yes, I was avoiding doing the maths!  So, on Saturday night, with one more sleeve to go, I picked up the one I had already knitted (yes, the one with the too-long sleeve cap), frogged back to what I thought was the right measurement to fit into the arm opening, bound off, and began sewing.  I did this four times and none were right.  I have a feeling I know what I did wrong but I don't want to talk about it.


I ended the evening where I began, with one sleeve left to finish.  Last night, I decided to do the top-down sleeve method again but no matter how many times I picked up the stitches around the arm hole, I couldn't get the same number as I had on the other arm.  I pushed on, knitting the short rows, going on until I reached the bottom of the opening, only to discover that the sleeve would be too tight. I'm not one to easily give up so I frogged back and did this two more times. By the third hour of working on this miserable sleeve, I threw the cardigan back into my knitting bag and went to bed in a huff. 




I usually like to sleep on problems that I'm having and this was no different. So, this morning, I woke afresh, put my cardigan on, and after looking at the way it fit, decided that I have to let go.  There are too many aspects about this cardigan that doesn't work for me.  The rib collar is unflattering, and the one sleeve that I did manage to knit is too puckered around the arm opening and even with severe blocking as Julie suggested, I don't think will smooth out to my liking.  Perhaps more than that, the shoulder seam is now mimicking a dropped sleeve look which on my frame is really unattractive.


So I've come to the only conclusion that makes sense (to me, at least):  I'm going to let go and chalk this experience as a lesson learned. I'm not vowing to never knit a cardigan again -- far from it -- but for now, I think I'm better with knitting a top-down or raglan-style sweater instead. Setting in sleeves is a real skill, one that I just don't have yet, and that's okay. I'll learn it and I'll try again.


Thanks for all your incredible support during this failure of mine -- I really don't see it as wasted time (okay, maybe a little) and instead can appreciate what I have learned in the process.  I'll be frogging this little terror soon as the yarn is just too beautiful to let languish.  I'm sure you'll see it done up in something much more successful soon!


Berocco Ultra Alpaca Light







21 comments:

  1. To acknowledge that a project is not working is major
    To frog the project is wisdom
    a lesson learned on several fronts
    firstly, it's only yarn
    next, realizing it's not a pleasant project to pick up to work
    and that THE CHEMISTRY JUST AIN'T RIGHT ! ! !

    Now looks like you have six or seven skeins of yarn in your Stash without costing an additional cent.

    hugs
    Gerry

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  2. Can I revisit the idea of a vest with you, to save you frogging and throwing away all those hours; not to mention, the fiber. I always think it's not as nice once it's frogged. It looks great in the photo. Why not just do a little edge on the sleeve and wear your creation?

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  3. :( Sorry it didn't work out for you, you definitely are a trooper knitting that sleeve soooo many times!

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  4. That is always a tough decision to come to, but you learned a lot in the process and are now that much more ready to make a great cardigan for you!

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  5. Gerry said it all. If it isn't working, then so be it. You'll be feeling so much better now you don't have it hanging over your head. It's an experience, and in every way that counts, you have actually now knitted a cardigan. It just didn't end up in one piece. :-)

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  6. Wow. I don't even know what to say. What a bummer. Still, it happens to all of us, and at least you knew when to quit. On the brighter side, you have a VERY accurate gauge swatch.

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  7. I'm so sorry your cardigan didn't work out but I don't think you should count it as a fail by any means - I always say that if things go wrong the worst that can happen is that you learn from it and I would say you have learnt lots. It can only get better for next time! Keep your chin up! :)

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  8. oh no! I totally feel your pain, sometimes a project just doesn't work out. I've only done set in sleeves like that once before, on my Twenty Ten Cardigan, and I really liked Veera's method of doing it. You might try one of her patterns the next time you feel like giving this technique a go again.

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  9. I read this post while eating my lunch and I haven't been able to get back to you til now. I must say I am proud of how you are soldiering through this! It is humbling, but that alpaca wants to be something else; it was trying to tell you, but you weren't listening!
    And I hope it hasn't scared you off bigger projects, IhopeIhopeIhope. You did put so much time into that piece. Better to frog than wear it and know it is not your style.

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  10. Oh bummer. That's the worst! I've just recently tried the top down sleeve method and I can understand how it just invites in problems matching the sleeves up. At least you didn't complete it and then decide it didn't work. :)

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  11. Aww, I hope the next one will go better. I find if I'm not getting something, trying again a few months later will sort everything out, and I wonder what was so hard about it in the first place. I'm looking forward to seeing what you make instead :)

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  12. Oh dear! I'm so sorry that it had to come to this, especially after you worked so hard to make it perfect! I'm positive that the next cardigan you try will be perfect and not even remotely as frustrating. At least it was knitted in a yarn that you enjoy : )

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  13. Sometimes things are just not meant to be ;-) This beautiful yarn deserve to become something that will be loved!

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  14. Drat--that it didn't work out as you expected. But cudos for having the courage to decide to call it quits. Your next sweater effort will better suit, I'm sure!

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  15. Oh boy! What an experience.
    I've never knitted a bottom up cardi before and after reading about your horrors, damn, I don't think I ever will.
    You kept it real; good for you. You should be having fun and enjoying a challenge, not disappointed.

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  16. Ahhh I'm so sorry to hear about your cardigan issues, too bad they couldn't be resolved. Sometimes frogging is for the best though, it just wasn't meant to be. That yarn has other plans and I know they will be even bigger and better than the cardigan.

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  17. Good for you! Its so hard to give up on something that isn't working out, but it sounds like this is the right decision for you. I can't wait to see what you make next!

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  18. oh well, you learned a fantastic amount and you still have the yarn. You did brilliantly to keep going x

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  19. Awwww how sad =( I hope you can mmake something fabulous from the yarn that you will love!

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  20. Berroco's ultra alpaca light is such a lovely yarn--and you now get to knit it twice. There is always a silver lining.....

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  21. Oh so sorry! You sound like you are in a good spot regarding this experience though, no matter how frustrating. You are lucky to have all that beautiful yarn just waiting to become something else!
    *smiles*
    (PS: I have gone to bed in a huff over knitting before too!)

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